Some of the things I write about probably seem like social criticism. That may be, but the brunt of the criticism is directed at myself, first. Almost everything I write about, I have learned from mistakes I have made.
When I was a kid, I went along with the others who called kids with disabilities names.
Before I started working with adults with intellectual disabilities, I used to erroneously believe they couldn't learn anything. I am glad to report I was very mistaken.
Then when I did start working with individuals with disabilities, I used to pat their heads, which can be condescending. I used to call them honey or sweetie even though I never use those terms with any other adults. And I used to think the things they did were cute. I colored with them and automatically did child-like activities with them. I tied their shoes, not wanting them to get frustrated even though they could do it by themselves. I really just didn't know any better and my behavior was based on my belief that they were more like children than adults.
Over time, as I got to know the people I support, I realized that they are capable adults, able to learn everyday and contribute to society.
In assuring equality for all humans, some will have to change their beliefs, just as I did. I am still learning and still making mistakes daily. It's a process and I am thankful that people are lenient and forgiving of me as I proceed.
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